You could use a change of tune

I've been such a pollyanna
I just rolled back like a rug
Oh but you can't understand that no
'cause you're in the hole you dug

You know, sometimes I think it's retarded to post lyrics on your weblog, but sometimes it just feels right. That was "Change Your Tune" from Grant Lee Buffalo, off their Jubilee album that came out about 97 or 98. Nice little ditty indeed.

xoxo